By: Alex and Sebastiaan
After meeting while studying abroad in Thailand, Alex and Sebastiaan graduated, used their smarts and got a 9-5 traveling the world. They aim with purpose to uncommon territory and gather better experiences than most desk jobs can offer. Read lostwithpurpose's blogs about the things they've learned while exploring these part of the world with nothing but a backpack.
We’ve officially been on the road for half a year! Here’s a look back to six things we’ve learned from six months of backpacking.
Hoorah hooray! Today is the day!
What day, you say?
I will explain, if I may.
On February 24–exactly six months ago, today–we said doei to the Netherlands, put our woefully underprepared backpacks and bodies onto a plane, and hopped on over to Tbilisi, Georgia. I’d like to say we arrived energized and excited to begin our epic voyage… but we were mostly sleepy and desperate for something that wasn’t airplane crackers. A fitting start to our (mis)adventures.
We’ve grappled with parasites, hitchhiked with truckers, lost all of our socks, and frozen our bums off more often than not.
(The last two may be related.)
After backpacking overland through seven countries, despite making complete fools of ourselves time and time again, we’d like to think that we’ve also learned a thing or two about travel.
(And not just how to toilet text on a squatty, though I am very proud of that one.)
Six things we’ve learned from six months of travel
1. The local is not always right.
The Esteemed and Omnipotent Local is always touted as an end-all source of wisdom. “Cafe X is recommended by locals.” “Locals love to hang out at Y.”
Sure, locals can give bombdiggity recs that your crumpled old guidebook hasn’t heard of… but we’ve gotten plenty of poor recommendations from locals, too.
We’ve trekked across a city to find a local-recommended restaurant, only to find out they’ve pointed us towards their favorite American burger joint. Locals told us we could surely visit places without escort, and we ended up being accosted by police for walking around by ourselves. A million and one Pakistanis recommended we visit “Shangri La” in northern Pakistan… which turned out to be a 5-star luxury resort on a heart-shaped manmade lake. Break out the swan paddle boats! (Translation: not our cup of tea.)
I’m not saying you should bury your nose in your guidebook and tune out the locals–just keep context in mind when asking around.
2. Comfort is always worth an extra dollar.
At first, we were hardcore budget travelers. We knew how to travel cheap: we only booked the cheapest beds, we considered pastries from metro stations a nutritious balanced diet (onions count as vegetables, right?), and we always took the cheapest transport available.
… then we got bedbugs from the cheap sleeps, incessant pains from sitting in midget-sized bus seats for hours, and I began to literally shit pure cheese our intestines started to protest our wretched diet.
These days, we’re still traveling on a budget, but now we’re willing to shell out an extra dollar for bus seats that recline, and I occasionally order a side of vegetables at dinner to keep the scurvy and cheesy excrements at bay.
3. The more you travel, the more stupid mistakes you make.
Not that we like counting, but we’ve each visited over 40 countries at this point, so we’re comfortable saying we’re somewhat experienced travelers.
… on paper.
Honestly, we probably make more rookie mistakes than first time backpackers. We constantly forget stuff in hostels. We’ve starved on many a bus ride because we forgot to buy food ahead of time. No matter how many times we vow to be better prepared, we end up with one liter of water between the two of us for full day hikes. (Note: definitely not enough.)
Unlike new travelers, who are constantly over prepared and on the lookout for everything and anything that could go wrong, we’re dangerously lax and constantly screwed as a result. At least we haven’t been pickpocketed… yet.
4. Language barriers aren’t as big as you’d think.
One of the most common questions that comes our way: “How do you communicate with locals? Isn’t language a problem?”
Not going to sugar coat it—sometimes it is. Xinjiang, China just didn’t float our metaphorical boats, and part of that is probably due to our speaking zero Mandarin or Uyghur.
But that was an exception. There’s plenty that you can say with body language, miming, and a smile, so long as everyone is patient.
When Georgians and Armenians realized my Russian is absolutely abhorrent, they’d simply take our hands and help us along, or play Charades with us until we figured things out. The jolliest of Georgian grandmothers hosted and doted upon us for an entire day, despite not speaking a word of English. She still managed to communicate and stuff us silly.
Our first afternoon in Iran was spent with a crazy pair of girls who could hardly form a sentence of English between them, and still we had a blast. Further into our Iranian adventure, we were hosted by the sweetest young man in Shush. He only spoke basic English, but he had the patience of a saint, and took the time to look up translations to each of his thoughts. There was a 5-10 minute delay in conversation, but at least there was conversation.
5. Malls are excellent places to have diarrhea.
When you’re straining your body with constant travel, feasting on street food and hole-in-the wall grub 24/7, the chance that you’ll eventually get diarrhea is 110%. I’m not shy about admitting it.
We both picked up a parasite in Pakistan, and had to dash to a toilet every few hours for the majority of our time there. It was all well and good if we were at a guesthouse, but what to do when out and about on the street?
… MALLS. Though malls are the last place we’d want to spend time while traveling, they all have beautiful, shining, semi-clean thrones toilets… that come with toilet paper and air conditioning! Be still my heart—er, intestines.
6. You can’t believe everything you see in the media.
Perhaps the most important lesson of all. Though media drives globalization, it also destroys it by focusing only on the negative aspects of countries.
Georgia and Armenia were made out to be bleak, war-ridden Soviet wastelands. Instead, we found warm hearts and kind souls (though they did drink just as much as we expected).
According to the media, Iran is a hyper-conservative country of silent women swathed in black, and flag-burning young men. Tell that to the girls ripping off their hijab the second we went inside, or to the young men pestering us to help them find a way to visit LA.
Pakistan is portrayed as the land of guns, bombs, and turban-clad terrorists. Well, we did encounter some terrorists, but not the kind you would expect! Rather than angry hordes of Taliban, we were swarmed by hordes of the most hospitable people we’ve ever met in our travels.
These first six months have set the bar dangerously high, and we often worry it’ll be impossible to top our experiences thus far. Our next steps will take us through Central Asia, a notoriously frustrating region to travel through, and to India, known for being insanely chaotic, uncomfortable, and wretched on the intestines. Only time will tell, but regardless of what happens, at least we know where the best toilets are.
This article was originally published on Lost With Purpose, and was republished with permission.